Self-defense on a shopping trip, really? Yes, really.

The last thing on our minds during the holiday shopping season is personal safety. It’s so easy to become preoccupied with all of the holiday frills that we often let our guards down, especially when it comes to our children . . . and the bad guys count on this. That’s why we must be prepared.               

I have many parents ask for some simple ways to make sure their child is safe during the countless shopping trips.  So here are a few tips for your loved ones this season.           

Malls are unavoidable for us shoppers and the bad-guys know this.  My suggestion is for children under 12 to remain with parents or adult during shopping trips.  This is a drag for the tween kids but it’s much safer.  For teens, shopping with friends is the rule, preferably with groups of three to six.           

You must remember to view the child-abductor as a cowardly predator.  He is looking for that lone child to attack.  Stay with the groups and remain in public areas of the mall.  Avoid going to restrooms alone or walking out to their cars alone.  Of course, cell phones are the ideal way for you to stay in touch with your child.           

And always run!   Hopefully your child never has to deal with being assaulted but tell them to run.  Get out of there and go to a security guard. Inform your child to report any suspicious incidents to the proper authorities.             

The holidays are fun and exciting and for the most part are very safe. It’s always better, however to be prepared and to have a plan.  

From your friends at Tyler Kung Fu & Fitness, have a happy Thanksgiving and a merry Christmas.